Bonjour tout le monde!
Following about what I
said last week, when talking about differences, I think it is important to
mention that there are similarities as well. I did want to point out the
differences to create a picture of how I see the world on a daily basis, but
these are not the only things that define people. Yes, there are things that stand out from
different cultures, subtle or not, but they are not the only factors when
considering the nature of a person and place. An important thing to never
forget is that with differences, there are similarities. There are a million
and one ways in which the women I see in France and similar to me, and that is
just as important as what stands out.
Along with this idea of
focusing and grouping others on their differences, we are given stereotypes.
Although I tend not to think much about stereotypes, nor do I choose to do my
judgment of people based on a larger view, I still believe I must refute a
common stereotype I have heard. Probably the most common stereotype I have
heard from people, is that French people are rude. I find this statement hard
to grasp, especially since I do not think people, more importantly French
people, are just rude to everyone.
When coming into contact
with people’s attitudes, the way someone acts towards use, is most likely a
reciprocal on how you acted on them. Of course, you could be a sweet as a peach
to someone and they could just be rude back, but basing an entire country on
that is preposterous. After being here for a couple of weeks, I have learned
that the possibly reason that we may think French people are rude are for two
reasons. The first one is the language. We are in their country, so when we
just assume that everyone knows English, it is like someone coming to America
and speaking a foreign language. Of course English is a more prevalent
language, but it is kinder to speak the native tongue, and not assume that everyone
has to speak ours.
Another reason some
people might think that French people are rude, is because they are not as open
as Americans are. This is not good or bad, it just is. They do not trust people
as much, so when someone is being kind to them, they thought may appear, “why
are you being nice to me?” Therefore, I would not call their attitudes rude,
just more hesitant, and there is nothing wrong with that. Actually, in the south of France, where I am now, I find the people here to be very pleasant. However, I do have to
convey some stereotypes that are true. France has the best crepes. Actually,
the best baguettes, croissants, pizza, tarts, basically anything that is a
carbohydrate. I have to admit, that these rumors are true. Of course this is merely my
opinion, and I am sure there are differentiating ones from different people.
However, if you don’t believe me, come see for yourself!
Lastly, I thought I would
give a recap of this past week! A week ago today, I visited Lyon, France with
some friends from my school. We had an awesome time exploring Lyon in a
peaceful and quiet season. Also, this weekend, we went to the French Alps to do some skiing,
snowboarding, and hanging out! It has been a great three weeks, and I cannot
wait for the weeks after!
À la semaine prochaine!
The Ferris wheel in Lyon, France.
La Basilique Notre Dame de Fourière in Lyon.
My friends and I conquering the French Alps.
One of the highest views on the Alps.
Making sure I can prove that I skied in the French Alps.
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